Medium Lady Talks: Burnout Recovery for Millennials and Mothers
Welcome to Medium Lady Talks, the podcast for burnt-out millennial moms who want to reclaim their time, energy, and joy—without the pressure of perfection. Host Erin, a working mom and mindful living advocate, shares refreshingly honest conversations and practical strategies to help you navigate motherhood, career, and self-care with medium effort. If you’re overwhelmed by unrealistic expectations and craving a more sustainable approach to life, you’re in the right place. Tune in for relatable insights on burnout recovery, self-care that actually fits your life, simplifying daily routines, and embracing imperfection with confidence. Through thought-provoking discussions, expert interviews, and personal reflections, Medium Lady Talks is your go-to resource for mindful, realistic growth—because you deserve a fulfilling life, not just a busy one. Let’s ditch the guilt, redefine success, and find joy in the small moments. Follow Erin on Instagram @medium.lady and start your journey to a more intentional, balanced life today.
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Monday Jan 05, 2026
Monday Jan 05, 2026
What if you didn’t end the year with a big goal — but with clarity?
In this quiet bonus episode closing out Season 5 of Medium Lady Talks, Erin shares a personal year-in-review reflection inspired by Laura Tremaine’s 10 Questions for the End of the Year. Rather than offering resolutions or strategies, this episode explores what happens when we stop waiting for permission, external validation, or the “right time” to move forward.
Erin reflects on her word for 2026 and what it means to live from inner authority instead of urgency. She unpacks three gentle but powerful realizations from the past year: why rescuing isn’t leadership, why depth matters more than speed, and why self-trust can be more radical than having a plan.
This episode is for anyone ending the year without a bold intention — and feeling oddly okay about it.
If you’re craving permission to slow down, listen inward, and trust yourself before chasing the next strategy, this conversation is for you.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
What Erin chose as her word for 2026 — and what it actually means for her year ahead.
The hidden cost of being the rescuer at work, in family life, and in relationships
Choosing depth and rest without abandoning ambition
Letting go of urgency, perfectionism, and incomplete projects without self-judgment
Why self-trust can be more grounding than goal-setting
A compassionate reframe for listeners who feel unsure about what’s next
Notable Quotes
“I realized I’ve been waiting for something that doesn’t exist — permission, legitimacy, or other people catching up.”
“Rescuing isn’t leadership. Rising up without abandoning myself is.”
“I didn’t end this year with a strategy. I ended it with self-trust — and that feels more radical.”
“You’re not behind. You might just be listening to yourself on a new level.”
Who This Episode Is For
Burnt-out women and millennial mothers navigating ambition and rest
Listeners who feel pressure to set goals but crave something quieter
Anyone tired of hustle culture and performative self-improvement
Leaders, caregivers, and creatives who are ready to stop waiting for permission
Mentioned in This Episode
Laura Tremaine’s 10 Questions for the End of the Year reflection practice
The Summer of Real Rest theme and its lasting impact
The idea of “negotiating the timeline, not the result”
What to Do Next
If something resonated:
Sit with a word that stood out to you
Notice where you’re done rushing or rescuing
Ask yourself where you might trust yourself a little sooner
There’s no homework here — just space.
Connect with Erin
Follow along on Instagram for more reflections, bookish content, and gentle encouragement: @medium.lady
If this episode spoke to you, screenshot it and share it — and tag Erin so you can continue the conversation.

Wednesday Dec 31, 2025
Wednesday Dec 31, 2025
What happens when being “strong” stops working?
In this deeply affirming and practical conversation, Erin is joined by Dr. Nikia Smith — practicing anesthesiologist, wellness coach, and founder of She Is Fire Forged — to explore how the Superwoman myth quietly fuels burnout, especially for high-achieving women and women in healthcare.
Together, they unpack how resilience, people-pleasing, and productivity can become liabilities rather than strengths — and why rest is not something to earn, but something to prioritize before everything else.
This episode is for anyone who:
feels exhausted despite “doing everything right”
has built a good life but still feels depleted or disconnected
has been praised for being strong, capable, and reliable — at great personal cost
🧠 In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:
• The hidden cost of the Superwoman identity
Dr. Smith explains how being “the strong one” often masks chronic exhaustion, emotional suppression, and self-abandonment — particularly for women of color and women in caregiving professions.
• Burnout doesn’t always look like collapse
You can love your job, love your life, and still be burned out. Burnout often builds slowly — like a simmer — long before it reaches a breaking point.
• Why rest must come before boundaries
Many women struggle to set boundaries because they’re already depleted. Dr. Smith shares why beginning with rest builds the capacity and courage needed to sustain boundaries over time.
• The ‘simmer’ metaphor for catching burnout early
Instead of waiting for total collapse, this episode offers language for identifying irritability, restlessness, resentment, and exhaustion before burnout boils over.
• The difference between sleep and real rest
Sleep matters — but it’s not the whole picture. Emotional rest, creative rest, social rest, and physical rest all play distinct roles in recovery and sustainability.
• How identity work is central to burnout recovery
Burnout often forces the question: Who am I beyond my roles and titles? This episode explores how dismantling inherited expectations opens space for self-trust and agency.
🔄 Reframing Strength, Productivity, and Success
This conversation challenges the idea that:
rest must be earned
productivity defines worth
success looks the same for everyone
Instead, Erin and Dr. Smith explore how true sustainability often means:
adding friction at work
removing friction at home
offloading invisible labor
questioning “shoulds” that drain energy without adding meaning
You’ll also hear honest reflections on:
outsourcing household labor
redefining success based on values (not aesthetics)
letting go of guilt around support, rest, and ease
🌿 Key Takeaways
Burnout is not a personal failure — it’s often the result of social conditioning and moral injury
You don’t need confidence to make changes; courage is enough
Rest creates the capacity needed to move from survival to intention
You are allowed to want a life that feels good, not just one that looks successful
Strength doesn’t mean doing everything alone
🩺 About Today’s Guest: Dr. Nikia Smith
Dr. Nikia Smith is a practicing anesthesiologist, wellness coach, and founder of She Is Fire Forged, a platform supporting high-achieving women of color through burnout recovery, rest, and self-trust.
Through her coaching and content, she helps women:
identify hidden burnout
unlearn the need to earn rest
build sustainable lives rooted in clarity and softness
Connect with Dr. Smith:
Instagram & TikTok: @sheisfireforged
Email: hello@sheisfireforged.com
She also offers:
an Exhaustion Quiz to identify what’s draining your energy
a Burnout Guide for recognizing early warning signs and dialing back before collapse
🎧 Looking Ahead
This episode follows the close of the Phone Free Fall series and arrives at a powerful moment — as many listeners head into the holidays already depleted.
If this conversation resonated, consider sharing it with someone who:
feels pressure to “do it all”
is running on fumes
needs permission to rest without guilt
🤍 Stay Connected
Follow Erin on Instagram: @medium.ladyExplore more episodes of Medium Lady Talks for grounded conversations about rest, burnout recovery, identity, and sustainable living.
And remember:Rest is not weakness. It’s a right.

Monday Dec 22, 2025
Monday Dec 22, 2025
On the winter solstice — the darkest day of the year — Erin closes the Phone Free Fall series with a quiet, honest reflection on presence, capacity, and what it means to actually live inside the life you worked so hard to build.
This episode isn’t about advice, challenges, or optimizing your habits. It’s about noticing. About naming the ways we slip out of our own lives — into scrolling, distraction, and emotional distance — not because our lives are bad, but because they are full.
If you’ve felt restless, overstimulated, or disconnected even while living a life you once dreamed of, this episode offers orientation, not pressure. A reminder that real life isn’t something you get to later — it’s already happening, and you’re allowed to be inside it.
🧠 In This Episode, Erin Reflects On:
• Why Phone Free Fall was never about quitting your phone
This series was about noticing how often we leave our lives without realizing it — and gently choosing to come back.
• The paradox of living a “good” life and still wanting to escape it
Full lives are often heavy to inhabit. Phones offer distance and numbness, but not true restoration.
• How rest, capacity, and phone use are deeply connected
Even when we rest, our phones can quietly drain the capacity that rest is meant to restore.
• What listeners discovered when screen time went down
Pride, boredom, boredom with scrolling — and then a strange, honest sense of being lost. Not a failure, but a re-entry.
• Why winter — and the solstice in particular — asks us to stay, not optimize
This season invites inwardness, stillness, and tolerance for what feels unfinished or unresolved.
• The practice at the heart of Phone Free Fall
Not discipline. Not restriction. Just noticing when you leave your life — and when you come back.
❄️ A Winter Solstice Reframe
The solstice doesn’t ask us to improve or shine.It asks us to stay.
Just as the light returns slowly — almost imperceptibly — presence returns minute by minute. With each moment we’re less interrupted. With each moment we choose to be here.
💬 Key Takeaways
You’re not escaping your life because it’s bad — you’re escaping because it’s full
Distance from your phone isn’t the same as restoration, but it can create space for it
Boredom and quiet are not problems; they’re thresholds
Your real life isn’t waiting for you to feel better — it’s already happening
You’re allowed to live inside the life you built, even when it’s imperfect, slow, or overwhelming
Noticing is the practice
🌿 As Phone Free Fall Comes to a Close
As Erin wraps both Phone Free Fall and Season 5 of Medium Lady Talks, she invites listeners into a winter pause — one that makes room for quiet, reflection, and enoughness.
You don’t need to do this better.You don’t need more discipline.You just need to keep noticing.
🎧 What’s Next
Episode 165: A conversation with physician and coach Dr. Nikia Smith on rest, boundaries, and care that actually sustains us
Season 6 of Medium Lady Talks returns in February after a January winter hiatus
🧡 Continue the Conversation
If this episode resonated, Erin would love to hear from you — especially how Phone Free Fall shifted your awareness, not just your screen time.
Follow along on Instagram: @medium.ladyAnd thank you for choosing to spend your time and attention here — they matter.

Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
You put your phone down.Your screen time went down.And instead of feeling calm or proud… you felt bored.Then scrolling felt boring too.And suddenly, you felt lost.
If that’s been your experience, this episode is for you.
In this Phone Free Fall conversation, Erin explores why setting phone boundaries can bring up unexpected emotions — and why feeling bored, unsettled, or untethered is not a sign you’re failing. It’s a sign that your nervous system is recalibrating.
This episode connects phone boundaries, emotional rest, and seasonal sensory grounding, helping you understand what’s happening in your body and how to stay supported without reaching for your phone again.
🧠 In This Episode, We Explore:
• Why phone boundaries often trigger emotions
Your phone hasn’t just been entertainment — it’s been a tool for emotional regulation. When you reduce screen time, the constant drip of distraction stops, and feelings finally have space to surface.
• Why boredom is a normal (and necessary) phase
Boredom isn’t emptiness. It’s a transition point between overstimulation and genuine interest. Feeling bored or “lost” doesn’t mean you need your phone back — it means your brain is adjusting.
• The emotional gap most digital wellness advice ignores
Lower stimulation doesn’t instantly feel better. It often feels unfamiliar, quiet, and disorienting. This episode names that gap so you don’t mistake it for failure.
• What emotional rest actually looks like
Emotional rest isn’t fixing your feelings, journaling perfectly, or staying positive. It’s letting emotions exist without immediately managing, numbing, or distracting from them.
• How to support yourself without scrolling
Erin shares gentle ways to stay regulated when phone boundaries bring up discomfort — including sensory grounding, seasonal rhythms, and body-based cues that don’t require more effort or discipline.
🍂 Seasonal Support: Staying Grounded Without Your Phone
This episode invites you to reconnect with sensory joys of the season as a way to support emotional rest, including:
warmth, light, and texture
slow, repetitive tasks (cooking, baking, tidying)
movement and fresh air
cozy, low-stakes rituals
noticing what feels comforting instead of productive
Winter already knows how to slow us down — we don’t need to force calm, just notice it.
💬 Key Takeaways
Feeling bored or lost after reducing screen time is normal
Your phone has been regulating your nervous system — replacing it gently matters
Emotional rest begins when we stop interrupting ourselves
You don’t need more discipline — you need more support
Phone Free Fall isn’t about quitting your phone; it’s about rebuilding tolerance for being with yourself
🧡 If This Episode Resonated
If this episode helped you make sense of how you’re feeling, consider sharing it with someone navigating phone boundaries too. And if you’re in the middle of Phone Free Fall, Erin would love to hear not just your screen time wins — but how it actually feels.
📱 Continue the Conversation
Follow Erin on Instagram: @medium.ladyJoin the ongoing Phone Free Fall series and explore what real rest looks like — emotionally, mentally, and digitally.
🔗 Related Episodes
Your Brain Is Full: Why You Can’t Put Your Phone Down (and It’s Not Your Fault)
Who Knew Quitting Would Be This Hard? (Phone Free Fall check-in)

Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t stop picking up your phone, especially in December, this is the episode you need. Erin breaks down the real reason you feel overstimulated, resentful, or stuck in the doomscroll — and spoiler: it’s not a lack of willpower. Your brain is just full.
In this Phone Free Fall episode, Erin explores how emotional labour, holiday chaos, mental load, and constant interruptions shape your relationship with your phone — and what to do when putting it down actually makes your anxiety spike.
If you’re craving validation AND practical tools, this one’s for you.
🔎 In This Episode, We Explore:
• Why your phone isn’t the problem — your full brain is
Erin explains why scrolling becomes an “emotional release valve” when life feels overstimulating.
• The hidden forces making December uniquely overwhelming
Holiday interruptions, childcare changes, gift logistics, sensory overload, financial pressure, and emotional labour all combine into a perfect mental-load storm.
• The surprising signs your brain is full
Including:– opening apps automatically– feeling buzzy or urgent for no reason– shame about unfinished simple tasks– multitasking even when you don’t need to– craving constant noise– scrolling while physically uncomfortable– feeling brittle, resentful, or tapped out
• Why phone boundaries often feel worse before they feel better
Silence gets louder, feelings surface, and thoughts crowd in — Erin explains why this is normal and not a sign you're doing anything wrong.
• Compassion-based phone boundaries (especially for December)
Small, realistic steps for navigating screen time during an emotionally maximalist month.
✨ Practical Tools Mentioned
Micro-pauses before opening apps
Opal App (iPhone) for screen time blocking
Landline Mode and “move the app” techniques
Slow-drip dopamine: reading, journaling, hobbies, rest
Medium-effort December as an antidote to holiday burnout
Letting your brain empty gently, not urgently
💬 Key Quotes from the Episode
“You’re not glued to your phone because you’re weak. You’re glued to your phone because your brain is full.”
“Doomscrolling creates emotional slipperiness — nothing sticks, and that feels like rest.”
“December asks for maximum everything. Of course your brain is over capacity.”
“The person who has a full brain has a full life. You worked hard for this life — don’t treat it like something you need to escape.”
🧡 If Your Brain Is Full Right Now…
You’re doing your best.You’re not behind.You’re not undisciplined.You’re not broken.
You’re overstimulated — and this episode will help you name it, understand it, and navigate it with compassion.
📱 Continue the Conversation
Come hang out with Erin on Instagram: @medium.ladyShare this episode with someone whose brain is also full — it helps the show grow and supports women who need exactly this kind of honesty and gentleness.

Monday Nov 24, 2025
Monday Nov 24, 2025
Cutting back your screen time should feel peaceful… right?Except when you actually try it, quitting your phone feels uncomfortable, emotional, and surprisingly hard.
In Episode 161, part of Phone Free Fall, I’m sharing a deeply honest four-to-six-week check-in on what it’s really like to change your relationship with your phone — including the withdrawal phase no one talks about, the “brain bargaining” that happens in the early weeks, and the surprising shifts that happen when your nervous system stops drinking from the firehose of five-second dopamine hits.
If you’ve ever wondered why scrolling feels rewarding, why boredom feels unbearable, or why your screen time spikes right when you’re trying to quit, this episode unpacks all of that with compassion, context, and real tools.
Together we explore:
✔️ What I actually changed (spoiler: nothing dramatic)✔️ The gap you have to fill when the phone goes down✔️ Why the first 2–3 weeks feel so uncomfortable✔️ The neuroscience of dopamine withdrawal✔️ How scrolling delivers stimulation, not satisfaction✔️ Why screen time may rise before it falls✔️ How creativity starts to re-inflate when input slows down✔️ The moments of “micro-boredom” that tug you back to your phone✔️ What I’m paying attention to next — including the emotional load–scrolling boomerang effect
If you’re trying to scroll less and live more, this episode will help you feel less alone in the messy middle — and more confident about what’s actually happening in your brain, your body, and your habits.
🧠 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why your brain negotiates, bargains, and resists when you put your phone away
Why real life feels slow after constant online stimulation
How to interpret boredom as data instead of failure
How your saved folders reveal what you’re craving in real life
Why the “invisible load” peaks at the same time as screen time
How creativity grows when consumption shrinks
The tiny daily patterns (6am scroll, waiting-in-line scroll, bedtime scroll) worth noticing
How to reset without moralizing or self-judgment
🔎 SEO Keywords
phone addiction, digital detox, reduce screen time, dopamine detox, scrolling addiction, mindful phone use, overstimulation in women, burnout recovery, mental load and phone use, how to stop doomscrolling, motherhood and mental health, creative rest, digital wellbeing, phone-free tips
💬 Reflection Questions for Listeners
Use these prompts to explore your own phone-free journey:
When in your day are you most likely to reach for your phone?
What emotion usually triggers the scroll — boredom? overwhelm? avoidance?
What “quick hits” does your brain miss most?
What real-life activities give you slow-drip dopamine?
What creative urges are hiding behind your saved folders?
When you scroll “to rest,” does it actually feel restful afterwards?
How does your mood shift before, during, and after scrolling?
What small moment could you reclaim (morning routine, commute, transitions)?
Are you doing Phone Free Fall with me?Share your check-in over at @medium.lady or send me a DM — I love hearing your stories, questions, and aha moments.
And if today’s episode helped you feel seen, scroll a little less, or breathe a little deeper, make sure you share this episode with a friend you care about, so we can build a big community of people stepping back from this black box of doom.

Monday Nov 17, 2025
Monday Nov 17, 2025
In this episode of Medium Lady Talks, Erin sits down with watercolor artist and author Jaime Townzen for a heartfelt conversation about the shift from caregiving to creativity — and how making art became her most powerful source of rest.
Jaime shares her story of moving through years of intense caregiving, grief, and the emotional load of motherhood, and how a simple watercolor tutorial in 2020 opened the door to calm, grounding, and a renewed sense of self. Together, Erin and Jaime explore what it means to rest creatively, how small creative acts can quiet anxiety, and why giving ourselves 15 minutes with no “deliverable” can change our whole nervous system.
They also dig into the guilt so many women feel when trying to rest, the transition from parenting young kids to supporting aging loved ones, and how to spend less time on your phone by choosing slower, more intentional hobbies.
If you’ve ever said, “I wish I could paint,” or “I wish I had time to write,” this episode will meet you right where you are — and gently nudge you toward the creative practices your future self will thank you for.
Together, Erin and Jaime talk about:
How making art can regulate your nervous system
Why creative hobbies matter even if no one ever sees them
The guilt women feel when trying to rest
Navigating the shift from raising kids to caring for elders
Using creativity to spend less time on your phone
Letting go of perfectionism and embracing “just a piece of paper”
How small creative rituals can reconnect you to your identity
Key Takeaways
Creative rest doesn’t require talent — it requires time and permission.
Your first step isn’t “becoming an artist.” It’s sitting down.
A 15-minute hobby with no deliverable can completely shift your internal state.
Caring for others doesn’t mean losing yourself. Boundaries create wholeness.
Mindful phone use is tiring — and that’s why it reduces screen time naturally.
🔗 Resources & Mentions
Jaime Townzen’s Art & Writing
Absorbed by Jaime Townzen available wherever you love to buy books and at your public library (my library had a digital copy on Hoopla!)
Sarah Cray Watercolor tutorials
Connect with Erin:
Instagram: @medium.lady
Patreon: www.patreon.com/mediumlady
Email: mediumladytalks@gmail.com
Explore more book-related content on "Medium Lady Reads." - link to Spotify
Instagram: @mediumladyreads

Monday Nov 10, 2025
Monday Nov 10, 2025
What if your phone could stop following you around?
In Episode 159 of Medium Lady Talks, Erin Vandeven sits down with creator and stay-at-home mom Kassadi Gabriel—the mind behind the viral idea of “landline mode.” Together they unpack how simple technology boundaries can restore your patience, creativity, and peace of mind in a culture addicted to constant connection.
They talk about:
What “landline mode” really is and how to try it yourself
Why boundaries around your phone help you like yourself more
How overstimulation and mental load show up in motherhood
The myth of “consistency” as the new hustle culture
How curiosity (not perfection) brings hobbies and creativity back to life
This episode is part of Erin’s Phone Free Fall series—a season-long experiment in reclaiming attention, slowing down, and noticing what real rest feels like.
Mentioned in this episode:
Kassadi Gabriel on TikTok @kassadig
Kassadi Gabriel on Instagram @kassadigabriel
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If you’ve been craving fewer notifications and more presence, this conversation will help you find calm in a world that won’t stop pinging.
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Monday Oct 27, 2025
Monday Oct 27, 2025
In this episode of Medium Lady Talks, Erin sits down with poet, grief coach, and tarot reader Anna Jollymore to explore what it means to slow down, feel deeply, and create from the fire within.
Anna is the author of Words for Becoming, a stunning debut collection that gazes unflinchingly at the shadow side of personal transformation. Together, Erin and Anna unpack how poetry can help us process grief, rest our overworked minds, and reconnect with our inner voice in a world that rewards constant doing.
This conversation continues Erin’s Phone Free Fall series, inviting listeners to put down their phones and pick up something slower, quieter, and infinitely more real — reflection, creativity, and the sacred art of becoming.
Key Topics Discussed
How poetry makes space for emotions we usually rush past
Using writing and creativity as tools for grief and transformation
What happens when we stop numbing uncertainty with our phones
The connection between metaphor, mindfulness, and real rest
How poetry and tarot can ground us in embodied self-awareness
The beauty of sincerity, authenticity, and imperfection in creative work
Guest Bio
Anna Jollymore (she/they) is a Midwestern-based author, teacher, grief expert, and professional tarot reader. Her debut poetry collection, Words for Becoming, explores the sacred tension between loss and renewal — and the ways grief can shape us into something new. Anna is also a certified Grief Recovery Method coach and facilitator who helps others make meaning through creative and spiritual practice.
📖 Words for Becoming is available now on Bookshop.org and Amazon.📱 Follow Anna on Instagram at @thepoetannajollymore.
Takeaway for Listeners
If you’ve been feeling burned out, overstimulated, or disconnected from your creative side, this episode invites you back to yourself. Through poetry, journaling, and mindful stillness, you can find small, steady ways to rest — not by escaping your life, but by being more fully present in it.
Resources Mentioned
Words for Becoming by Anna Jollymore
The Grief Recovery Method
Phone Free Fall series on Medium Lady Talks
Medium Lady Reads — the sister podcast for book lovers and mindful readers
Call to Action
If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who’s been craving real rest or a creative spark.Subscribe to Medium Lady Talks wherever you listen, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show.
Join Erin’s community at mediumladycommunity.com Follow Erin on Instagram: @medium.lady
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Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
In an effort to continue to rest while also hosting a podcast, I'm reposting an episode from the archives. This episode of Medium Lady Talks originally aired on July 11, 2024. Enjoy and new episodes will air next Monday!
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Hello, hi! Today’s episode is a first for the show: Medium Lady Rants? After being influenced by a few videos critiquing BookTok and the Beauty Influencer space it occurred to me that some of the problems in those spaces also exist in the motherhood content space. And I have a lot of thoughts about it! This episode is designed to give you some healthy skepticism about short form content that targets mothers, so you can avoid the shame and blame that can sometimes be triggered after a scroll session.
Episode Summary
Why do moms seek this kind of content in the first place? And why can it be harmful?
While we don’t need to call out or “cancel” any particular creator there are themes behind some of the content that is useful to pay attention to
I’ll talk about why I resisted embracing the “Mom” niche for so long
The “machine” of social media is not invested in our wellness at all - even if creators are doing their best to create intentional content
Ultimately, motherhood content on social media feels like it’s serving a need - if we’re aware of what those needs are we can be more mindful as we consume short form content.
It’s crucial to remember that virality will always come before your mental health - and I’ll explain more about why this is the case.
What is rage baiting? And how does it work when it comes to short form content for mothers?
Remember your focus and attention is currency: creators will use your insecurities as the entry point to gain more of that currency as collateral you might find yourself being preyed upon for engagement.
I routinely reflect on the struggle I’ve experienced as a content creator to dabble with and mess around in some of the spaces that provide a straighter path to growth and virality and the cost of that would be my personal desire to help people and leave my audience better than when they found me.
Awareness of how this content can leave you in a shame and blame spiral is only good if it compels you to take ACTION - I’ll share my suggestions for how you can bring mindfulness and digital habits to your consumption of short form content (it’s easy I promise)
Other Episodes you might like:
Episode 107: From Anxiety to Action - How to reclaim your mental headspace with guest and coach Madeline Farquharson
Episode 108: From Self-Neglect to Self-Care - Prioritizing your Needs with guest and coach Madeline Farquarson
Other Resources mentioned:
The Opal App
Connect with Erin:
Instagram: @medium.lady
Email: mediumladytalks@gmail.com
Explore more book-related content on "Medium Lady Reads." - link to Spotify
Instagram: @mediumladyreads





